SHOPPING
By Bev Blais
Copyright 1999
Shopping is an activity I've always loved. It's almost as good
as a visit
to the hairdressers when you need a pick-me-up but more essential in
my
opinion.
Whether it's actually spending money that is enjoyable or the
thrill of
exchanging our hard-earned money for something of perceived value,
I'm not sure. There is always satisfaction in finding what I want at the
price I
want to pay but a good shopping experience is more than that.
It involves seeing all the newest products, styles and inventions that
come on the market. I love to explore a retailer's store who has
really made an effort in presenting his/her wares, or a craft shop that
features local artists. I
especially like to make a find … something that for some inexplicable
reason appeals to me. My latest find was an Ionic Hairbrush.
With each sweep through your hair it releases thousands of ions to help
repair molecule damage. Perhaps I'm just a shopoholic. I even
enjoy grocery shopping. Every once in awhile my husband wants to come with
me, in self-defense.
Christmas shopping is particularly satisfying and fun because the focus
is
shopping for the people you care most about in this world. Not
only that,
you get to accomplish your mission while listening to a selection of
beautiful and familiar Christmas music. The rhythms are infectious
and the best part is I know most of the lyrics. This gives me the
option of
singing as I shop.
The mall crowds, screaming children, lineups, Santa's Village, decorated
trees, wreaths, bows, bells and creative lighting are all part of the
seasonal hype to create the right atmosphere for us to be separated
from
our money. Although many people find these pressure tactics unpleasant
I find them exhilarating and go right along with the flow.
Early on my Father set us straight about Christmas. He said it
was not a
time to ask for what you wanted but rather a time to give and to appreciate
what you received. Guessing games about what might be under the tree
were discouraged although my sisters and I did our own private speculations.
As a result we have always given a considerable effort to finding gifts
that will give unexpected pleasure, selecting things that the recipients
would not necessarily go out and buy for themselves. Always the most
successful gifts have been ones that were handmade, not purchased but realistically
this is not always possible. One of my personal favourites was a photo-album
done by my Aunt Claire that depicted my life from birth to motherhood with
typewritten comic comments on my development and future.
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